How should a disciple of Jesus navigate this time of year? I offer a few things based on Biblical principles that I believe can be helpful.

#1 Have a plan. God had a plan for our salvation even before the foundation of the world (see Ephesians 1:4 on that). Aren’t you glad he did and stuck to it!?!?

If you don’t make a plan, you will become a servant to those who will make one for you. Safeguard your family, your time, energy & spiritual health by being proactive in deciding where & how you will spend the special days ahead.

Solomon said the mind of man plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps (Proverbs 16:9). So give the Almighty something worthy to direct. Ha!

#2 Make the most important things your priorities, because of all the things God could have done, he saved us so he could bring us to himself forever.

The Bible does not go all over the place to explain mathematics, psychology, physics, nuclear fusion, animal husbandry, medical techniques or other pursuits. Instead, it reveals God’s nature through Jesus & helps us model ourselves after himself. This is his priority.

What is important to you for these holidays? Being with family? Getting away together? Staying home? Keeping worthwhile traditions? Decide what things are important to you and make those your focus.

#3 Include service to others in your celebration. When David brought the ark of God into Jerusalem he made sure everyone had something with which to celebrate that great day. 2nd Samuel 6:17-19 tells us he provided “a cake of bread, and one of dates and one of raisings to each one”. Solomon said those who give to the poor lend to the Lord (Proverbs 19:17).

Jesus came to serve, rather than to be served, so we could do nothing better than to serve. It may be with a sack of groceries, or maybe just a phone call. Follow your Lord's example.

#4 Acknowledge Grief. In the midst of celebration, we are reminded also of losses we have suffered. Isaiah called Jesus the man of sorrows. Solomon said sadness is better than laughter (Ecclesiastes 7:3). Sorrow means you have cared deeply. Take time to honor your sorrow. Embrace it so you can move on with life.